Have you found a guy that you\’re really interested in but you\’re not sure if you are pretty enough to get his attention? He is everything that you\’ve ever looked for in a guy. He\’s clever and witty and as pretty as a guy can be. But you\’re worried that you\’re not his type because he is so handsome. You worry that he won\’t think that you\’re pretty enough and that you\’ll just get your heart broken.
I hate to tell you this but every woman out there feels the same way that you do. No matter how pretty a girl is, she still looks at other women and thinks that they\’re prettier than she is. We all have this insecurity that we simple aren\’t as attractive as the competition and we all fear losing a man to a girl that is prettier than we are. Even models worry about their looks and it is natural to feel insecure about our looks since we have grown accustomed to our face from looking at it in the mirror every day for our entire life. But still we wish to be the prettiest girl around when we find someone that we\’re interested in.
But can you get a guy\’s attention with your beauty? Can being pretty give you an edge over your competition? If it wasn\’t so important then we wouldn\’t have a huge cosmetics industry and women everywhere wouldn\’t be working so hard to look good, right? If you are the prettiest girl around then you have a chance with him. If you can attract him with your girlish figure and if you always look your best then he will value you and want to be with you, right?
When you think these thoughts or speak them aloud they sound a little crazy, don\’t they? When you think about it logically you probably see the flaw in these thoughts. You will never get the guy of your dreams by trying to be the hottest or the prettiest girl around. Why? Because there will always be a woman out there that is prettier than you. Even if you do get the guy you are hoping for by being hot or pretty, is that what you want to be valued for? If this is the basis of your relationship then he will leave you as soon as a prettier girl walks by. He will forget about you as soon as they hire someone younger or prettier than you. That\’s no way to live and that should never be your goal because it doesn\’t work.
There is always manipulation and trickery to get your guy to fall for you. You can toy with his heart and mess with his mind until he falls in love with you. You can employ all of your womanly powers to make him miss you when you\’re gone and make him call you by avoiding his phone calls. You can make him so twisted up inside that he\’ll be like a dog chasing his tail to spend time with you. Maybe playing him like fiddle will make him fall for you.
Of course, there are a multitude of rules that go along with being manipulative to get the guy that you\’re dreaming of to fall in love with you. You can\’t call him or text him first. You can\’t tell him how you really feel about him. You can\’t be too nice to him and, if possible, you should use another guy to make him jealous of you. This is how it works, right? This is how you manipulate a man to get him to fall in love with you, right?
But wouldn\’t it be great if you didn\’t have to deal with rules? With all of these rules you aren\’t really being yourself anyhow, are you? There is also a very good chance that you\’ll make a mistake and break down and call him or text him when things are going good. You might even lose out on the guy of your dreams by not calling him or texting him when some other girl is doing the exact opposite.
In spite of what people say, the only thing that is going to make a guy fall in love with you that is worth concentrating on is being yourself. Men fall in love with women because of how that particular woman makes him feel inside about himself. If she\’s pretty, he might feel good for a period of time because he\’s spending time with someone that he finds physically attractive but soon the novelty wears off and there needs to be more depth to the relationship. A man falls in love with a woman that is truly interested in him and wants to know him. The friendship part of the relationship is more important to him than any other aspect of the relationship.
If he is going to fall in love with you in a way that will last then it will be because you make him feel handsome and clever and funny and strong. Beauty is fleeting and games often come back to bite you pretty hard when you\’re pursuing someone that you\’re really interested in. Knowing how to draw him close to you and make him your best friend is the only way to cement the bond of a lasting, loving relationship with the man of your dreams and make him fall in love with you forever.
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